What should i say when i ask them?
i can’t stand being in a house with my parents anymore its makes me very unhappy to the point were whenever im around them is making me not want to live on this earth anymore and its only when im around them. we are moving to a new house soon and i’ll be changing schools but i desperatly cannot stay with them i will just become more unhappy and possibly really hurt myself or them maybe not physically but you know what i mean. so im trying to move in with my best friend and if her mom agrees then im going to sit my parents down with my sister and tell them how i feel and how i want to leave or i’ll explode possibly for real. but im not sure what i should say exactly i know you guys can’t put words into my mouth but im sure you could help in some way. so what should i say?
Best Answer – Chosen by Asker
If you cannot bear your parents, you cannot bear anyone else on earth.
There are problems in various families, especially in these days, when moral education is ignored in all schools – and even in families.
Simple principle says that children must obey parents, and parents must provide good education for their children. Society must do this for orphans. But, we use all sorts of pretexts to judge other people including our parents and to leave our children in ignorance, especially ignorance about morality.
In these circumstances, we maintain peace by trying blindly to bear disobedient children and irresponsible parents, while blaming other people, blaming society, blaming destiny.
But judging other people is the worst thing in life, especially judging one’s parents. Perhaps, only one member of the family tries to rethink and to make improvement for oneself, the conditions of the family may become better. And who is that member who tries to make the change, by self humiliating, self educating and self forgetting.
Yes, when each person among human beings learns to make her/his own improvement, the world will improve. And nowadays, how it is easy for this education on the Internet. (In my country, a poor person can spend only 15 cents for one hour learning at a café Internet).
Moreover, the world is, in fact, advancing tremendously in this Age of maturity of the whole human race. So, our present conditions are not desperate.